We are siblings of the same pain

It was a simple realization, I was running the other day and it just hit me.  I need pain. It’s not some emo phase, I had to keep running and think about what had crossed my mind to fully understand what I meant. My friends have prompted me to meet other people to try and … Continue reading We are siblings of the same pain

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Astral connections

“Zahir means, in Arabic, visible, present, unable to go unnoticed. Someone or something that, once it has established a connection, ends up inhabiting our thoughts little by little, up to the point there is nothing else we can concentrate on.  And that can be considered sanctity, or folly” – Paulo Coelho, The Zahir I have … Continue reading Astral connections

How much are we willing to compromise, for real?

Compromise.  We are all extremely open when it comes to negotiation and concessions, until it hits close to the heart.  A lot of people claim to be ok with an open relationship, especially if distance is a factor, or with adding another person to some of their sexual interactions, or to try swinging.  Very few … Continue reading How much are we willing to compromise, for real?

All you need is love – But is what we need really what we want?

I think most people often ask themselves the other question: is what we want really what we need?  And the answer to that is probably easier, because it basically revolves around the of superfluous needs. If you ask yourself if what you want is really needed it means that you probably already know you don’t … Continue reading All you need is love – But is what we need really what we want?

Everyone wants to be a Phoenix, born again from its own ashes, but nobody knows the Phoenix is condemned to eternal loneliness

In my lifetime I have seen a conspicuous number of people who got through a particularly tough time in their life and, at the end of the tunnel, have gotten a phoenix tattooed on their body.  I always felt profoundly envious of people who were so sure of wanting something to get it permanently inked … Continue reading Everyone wants to be a Phoenix, born again from its own ashes, but nobody knows the Phoenix is condemned to eternal loneliness